A little corner of the web where you can find some hope
Waiting is not my strong suit. As a matter of fact, I’m awful at it. Yes, I’ve posted about ‘waiting’ before, but, I need to post again. It helps me. :)
The most annoying thing about waiting is…well…waiting. Here are some examples:
These are every day waits.
How about deeper ones?
Waiting is hard. And sometimes the only way to get through it is to GO THROUGH it.
It hurts, it’s annoying, it’s unpleasant and it seems to take FOREVER!!! It takes you back to being a little kid in the back seat of the car during a long family road trip asking, “Are we THERE yet?” “Is it time yet?”
Maybe you’ve been praying for something and the answer God placed in your heart was not “yes” and not “no”, but instead, “Wait, my child.” Fabulous. You’re okay with it at first. You resolve within yourself to wait it out, knowing that in time, the fruition or completion of whatever you’re waiting for will come into being. So, the days pass…and the weeks…and the months….that turn into years. Now, you’re getting restless. And prayers that started out like “God, I trust you. Whatever you want to do is fine with me. You’re faithful” eventually turn into “Um…God…Are you there? Do you even hear me? Where are you, by the way? Don’t you care? What’s taking you so long?”
I know you’ve never prayed like that, but, I have. All the while God is a loving heavenly father is saying, “patience”.
Since I’ve been a parent for some years now, I always end up reflecting on this same example with my own children. Maybe they ask for something special or want to go on a special trip, but, for whatever reason (financial, schedule conflicts, or for a lesson learned) they have to wait. They don’t understand why waiting is necessary, but, you as the parent know that it is. You watch them grapple with the idea of waiting and with the amount of time it takes before their request becomes reality. As a parent, sometimes it’s hard to watch your child wait, but, you know that for whatever reason, it is best and/or necessary. So it is with God, I believe. He sees and knows all. He knows that some things, if received too soon, would end up disastrous. So, we must wait. At just the right time, it will happen however He sees fit. Perhaps there are certain things that need to be put in place or removed or altered first. Perhaps God is working on other people’s hearts … people who will have a direct connection to the fruition of your request. God is working behind the scenes to put every detail in place.
If you’re waiting for an uncertain outcome, I think it is definitely difficult to trust that God knows what is best, especially if things do not end up turning out as we hope. It’s a tough place to be. I wish I could give you an easy solution, but, I cannot. Trusting God in uncertain circumstances is challenging. If things turn out favorably, it’s easy to praise God. If they do not, it’s very hard to understand to trust God. But, I do know that God cares about you and everything you’re going through. Even in unfavorable circumstances, He never abandons you. There are things we may not understand until we come into God’s presence when our lives here are complete. But, I encourage you to get around strong people in the faith to pray with you and help/advise you in this season. Even seek out quality, professional counseling if needed. Our faith in God is tried in hard times, but, I pray that you come out on the other side of this stronger in your faith than you were before. And please, allow yourself the space to grieve any painful outcome. It’s okay to ask God “why?” And if you’re angry with God, he can handle your anger. The one thing I know is that He will never leave you. Not now. Not ever.
If you are waiting for the results or completion or healing from something painful, we must trust that God sees us and knows what we feel. He is close to the brokenhearted. [Psalm 34:18] We must remind ourselves that God cares and is indeed near to us, even carrying us in the midst of our pain and will bring us to a place of healing and peace. But, there tend to be ‘layers’ of healing that we must experience, and layers take time. Throughout our healing journey, there are important lessons He teaches us. I have found from my painful experiences that God has brought me closer to himself. Because of what I experienced, it has allowed me to empathize with others who are going through similar situations, where I wouldn’t have been able to empathize before. And so, God helps me to reach out and plant seeds of healing and love into others’ lives. There’s a part in the Bible that says God “…comes alongside us when we go through hard times, and before you know it, he brings us alongside someone else who is going through hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us.” [2 Corinthians 1:4 MSG version].
So, we must continue to wait and trust. But always remember that you are never alone in your waiting or your trial. There are always other people who are going through similar situations. It helps if we link up with others to keep each other encouraged. This outlet (WordPress) is one good way (among many) to connect with others and gain support. There are other outlets such as social media (which can be used for good), support groups, church groups, etc. So, please be encouraged. Let the smile return to your face and let the hope return to your heart! Whatever you’re waiting for will happen in God’s timing and in His way. He is watching over you and will never abandon you. He has good plans for you. [Jeremiah 29:11]